When i follow the manual on how to embed your forum with your overall site nothing will happen when i code
</head>
<body>';
// header goes below here
include('../../../Main/header.php');
echo '
whether i put the header in the dir with index.template, or doing it like this....nothing shows up for me..... and i dont want to hardcode it in because then i gotta recode it every time i change the overall site's header
try using an absolute path rather than a relative one...