I cannot figure out how to start te process, I am new to this but am willing to learn the ropes, hope to hear from you.
What process? Have you installed SMF already on your server?
If not, have a look at Installing SMF (http://docs.simplemachines.org/index.php?board=2.0;sort=subject)
Also, take a look at Using SMF as an Administrator (http://docs.simplemachines.org/index.php)