I would very much like to see a option that dissable's all age related and birthday requirements info.
Birthday/age info is not a requirement at all. They can just leave it at the default value. It will still show a bunch of people as having a birthday on January 1st due to a bug, but since you can disable showing birthdays on the boardindex and in the calendar (if you have that enabled), that shouldn't be a major issue.
That may be true But I still want a way to dissable it.
If you don't want to have a birthday option at all, then you'll need to edit Profile.template.php