some members can't send pm

[butch2k]

That was my first though as well but the IPs seem pretty legits: California and Texas and not registered as spambot adresses.

[mark48]

i thought i would just update this in case anyone ever has the same problem

we have all the spambot protection and those ip aren't registered on the forum so i don't think they can abuse pm

namecheap was good and really tried to help but in the end just moved us to a different server and nobody has complained for a week so that seems to have fixed the problem

special thanks to butch2k and everyone here for the support and help